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| 15 signs and symptoms a serious guy displays. By. Emmanuel obinna |
- 1. He will not rush into sex
- She will not feel any pressure to have sex with him because sex is not all he is after. After all, if they will have a future together there will be plenty of sex for them ahead.
- 2 . He will ask a lot of questions
- A man who is interested in a woman will study her. He will want to know who she is, why she is and how she does things. She will feel searched out. When he does this, it is because he wants to “know” the person he’ll be waking up every morning to; the one face he’ll be seeing every night just before he goes to sleep.
- 3. He will handle her past
- A man keen on building her future will seek to understand her past, her past explains why she is the way she is. Her battles will become his battles, her joy his joy.
- 4. “He will not pretend”
- A serious man has no time to pretend to be a man he is not, he wants her to know him for who he truly is.
- 5. He will build her
- Because he sees her in his future, as his wife; he will not hesitate to correct her when she wrongs, confront her when she strays, direct her to opportunities or challenge her to be better.
- 6. He will hint at a future together
- If she carefully listens, she’ll notice him hinting at a future together whether directly or indirectly. He will ask hypothetical questions that suggest a husband and wife scenario, trying to pick her mind on what her desires about marriage and parenthood are.
- 7. He will not spoil her at the expense of her future
- A man who is working on a stable future will not waste his wealth today just to please the woman. He will not take a loan to impress her or go into debt to win her. He would rather enjoy today with her within his limit as he invests in a better future.
- 8. He will allow himself to be vulnerable to her
- Does he break down in front of you when he feels overwhelmed? A man who is serious about love will allow himself to be vulnerable to the woman to empower her to show him love. When he is lost, discouraged, down, in need of assistance, broke or hurting he will lean on her and confide in her. Her love will be the oasis he runs to.
- 9. He will become to her a father figure and a husband
- The more she looks at him the more he will look like a husband and father in waiting. He will handle her like his wife even though they are not yet married. Faithlessness will be unheard of, disrespecting her will not be an option
- 10. He will include her in his decision making
- A man who sees his future in you will automatically ask your input, and accept it, each time he makes a serious decision. He will do this even for a lot of the more everyday ones too. Because he wants her to have a stake in his future, he will seek her opinion before making a move.
- 11. He will get to know her family and friends
- He will slowly fix himself in her friends and family circle. He wants to appear as the man making in roads to her heart, he will not hide from the people he could be interacting with a lot in the future.
- 12. He will introduce her to his closest circle, the family and friends he cares about.
- A serious man will show her to his people, she will slowly get to know his friends, his siblings, where he hangs out, where he comes from.
- 13. He will work hard at becoming a better version of himself
- Whether it is learning a skill, investing money or learning a second language, a man who wants you to say be his Forever will be always working hard at a project to improve his character or CV or earning power. Researching and developing viable business ideas, religiously studying self-help manuals or learning to code or paint or do expert makeup art are a only a miniscule number of what he will spend his “leisure” doing (when he’s not spending it with you or his chill buddies).
- More and more the woman will become a source of inspiration to him, her coming to his life will usher in a better him. It’s not that he wants to merely impress her, but that he feels she is worthy of his best.
- 14. He will not talk only about sex
- Yes, he will make no apologies for finding her sexy, she will know she turns him on; but sexual matters will not be all they talk about. He will be the go-to person about any topic, he will even make her know more about herself, he’ll be the one man who knows her inside out and still chooses to stay.
- 15. He will feel bad about letting her down
- A man wanting permanent love with her will feel bad about letting her down, disappointing her, offending her or falling short. He knows he can’t be perfect but it hurts knowing she hurts even the slightest bit because of him. He will be quick to say sorry.
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